We now talk about … How to create instant attraction.
Many relationships problems have been solved by the clients and students recognizing their basic lack of understanding about attraction. This expectation is that somebody should love you because of some reason. Because they are married; because they are dating; because of all the gifts and favors he has done for her.
Attraction is not logically created. Attraction happens spontaneously. Guys, for some reason, believe they have to be either very rich of very good looking in able to attract a beautiful woman ( beautiful in his eyes). If the woman does accept a date he feels that the woman needs to be impressed with expensive gifts and dinners and favors and what not.
As this is a logical thought, the guy expects the woman to understand. Attraction is not created through a logical choice. It happens because of a challenge. Of all the material things one is attracted to like your banana in the fridge because it is a healthy choice; your old reliable car. These are logical things.
So you are most likely attracted to that new Mercedes convertible or that overwhelming house overlooking the ocean with the beautiful, relaxing sounds of the waves rolling in. An attraction that is probably out of your reach right now. Things that will require you to make a substantial effort if you did want to own one of them … that will challenge you to challenge yourself into becoming more than what you are right now.
The author then goes on to explain the answers to your dilemma. Attraction is NOT predictable, logical or rational. At least, he says, not on the surface. This surely interests you as you have come this far.